When is enough really enough?

There are relationships that take all different forms and go many different directions.  So, how do you know when to let go and when to hang on with all of your might?  I look back on relationships from my past and I see people that I thought were my friends but where did they go when things got tough, a blinding love that seemed endless just unraveled in a matter of days (or maybe it was years and I just didn't realize it), and then the true friend (if you are fortunate maybe two) that sees all of your flaws and still would rather laugh with you or cry with you because of all the hurt.  Sometimes we choose not to see truth about relationships for fear that they will be over but realistically when is it okay to let go and let enough be enough.  The journey of "suddenly single" could not have begun if there were just you.  It takes two people to have a relationship and it takes those same two people to destroy that relationship.  I ask you, when is enough fighting enough?  When is enough anger enough?  When is your bitterness enough that you can let go and truly begin the journey that will get you to that wonderful place of feeling alive again?  There have been many times in my life that I wanted to hold on so tightly to my idea of what I wanted my relationship(s) to look like that the reality of it should have been enough to make me realize there was nothing left to hold.   So as you go through this day I just want to encourage you that sometimes the best thing for you and the people in your life is to just let go and let enough be enough.

Thought for the day:  The darkest moment of your life is the moment before you see that long awaited light at the end of the tunnel.